Sober dating in New York
Sober curious dating is growing fast, and New York's bar scene has followed: alcohol-free bars, serious zero-proof menus and plenty of date ideas that do not revolve around drinks.
What sober curious dating looks like
Some people do not drink at all, some drink less, some just do not want alcohol to be the default on a first date. All of it is normal now, and many people find the conversation better for it.
Where to go
- Alcohol-free bars: several have opened in Brooklyn and Manhattan, with full zero-proof cocktail menus.
- Regular bars with good mocktails: ask for the zero-proof menu or a non-alcoholic version of a signature drink.
- Coffee, tea and dessert spots open late.
Talking about not drinking
You do not owe anyone an explanation. "I'm not drinking tonight" is a full sentence. If you want to share more, share what you like about it: better sleep, clearer mornings, remembering the conversation.
Why HelloHere is alcohol-free
On HelloHere you can send someone a drink, but only alcohol-free. It keeps the gesture light, inclusive and safe, and you pay the venue directly at the bar.
Are there alcohol-free bars in New York?
Yes. Several alcohol-free bars have opened in Brooklyn and Manhattan, and many regular bars now offer zero-proof cocktail menus.