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First date ideas in Bangkok

A good first date is short, public and easy to extend if it goes well. Bangkok makes that simple. Here are twelve ideas, from morning to late night.

Daytime

  1. Coffee in Ari. Pick a café, then walk to a second one for dessert if things go well.
  2. A walk in Lumphini Park. Rent a pedal boat or just watch the monitor lizards.
  3. Benjakitti Forest Park. The elevated walkways are beautiful in the late afternoon.
  4. A gallery afternoon. The riverside creative district around Charoen Krung has free galleries and design shops.
  5. A cooking class. Fun, hands-on and you leave with dinner.

Sunset

  1. The Chao Phraya Express boat. A cheap, beautiful ride along the river at golden hour.
  2. A rooftop with an alcohol-free menu. Great view, clear head, real conversation.
  3. A riverside terrace on the Thonburi side, facing the temples.

Evening

  1. A night market. Sharing street food is the best icebreaker there is.
  2. A mocktail bar. Bangkok now has bars with serious zero-proof menus.
  3. Live music. Jazz and acoustic bars where you can still talk between sets.
  4. Dessert crawl. Mango sticky rice, bingsu, Thai tea soft serve.

First date rules that always help

  • Meet in a public place and get there on your own.
  • Keep the first date to one or two hours. Leave them wanting more.
  • Choose somewhere quiet enough to talk.
  • Split the bill or take turns, and agree on it without drama.